CIMS Podcast: Ellie Faces Her Vulva Anxiety in New York

CIMS Podcast: Ellie Faces Her Vulva Anxiety in New York

Ellie shares a Comfortable In My Skin community update from her recent trip to New York in a new episode of the Comfortable In My Skin podcast. In this heartfelt episode, Ellie is joined by...
Ask Ellie: Are Vulvas Genetic?

Ask Ellie: Are Vulvas Genetic?

In this blog, Ellie answers a community question: Is what your vulva looks like (labia minora length, etc) genetic? Does your vulva change in appearance, and does your labia potentially develop/grow through puberty? Since I...
Community Story: Lichen Sclerosus

Community Story: Lichen Sclerosus

In this blog, a Comfortable In My Skin friend shares her anonymous story about being diagnosed with Lichen Sclerosus. One day, I happened to look down when I was in the toilet and noticed that I...
Community Story: Living With Herpes

Community Story: Living With Herpes

In this blog, a Comfortable In My Skin friend shares her anonymous story about being diagnosed with herpes. Following an intimate encounter without protection, I decided to undergo a routine health checkup. Little did I...
Ask Ellie: Tips for Being Comfortable In My Skin

Ask Ellie: Tips for Being Comfortable In My Skin

In this blog, Ellie answers a community question: What are some practical tips for when you’re feeling triggered by a photograph of yourself or judging your body in the mirror? I am curious what helps...
Resources To Build Self-Love

Resources To Build Self-Love

There are so many incredible resources out there that will deepen your understanding of the topics I cover at Comfortable In My Skin and help you deep dive into this world. I have included some of...
CIMS Podcast: Make Love Not Porn with Cindy Gallop

CIMS Podcast: Make Love Not Porn with Cindy Gallop

While in New York, I had the chance to meet so many incredible people, including trailblazer, powerhouse Cindy Gallop. Cindy was a top dog in the advertising industry before a branding project for a dating...
Let's Talk About The Labiaplasty Scene From The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives

Let's Talk About The Labiaplasty Scene From The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives

If you've watched Hulu's The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, chances are you saw the labiaplasty scene, in which reality star Jessi Ngatikaura shared the results of her labiaplasty on camera. In the scene, she...
Ellie Update: I'm In New York!

Ellie Update: I'm In New York!

I spontaneously jumped on a plane over a week ago to head to New York for the final stage of my book, Flip Through My Flaps. As the Comfortable In My Skin community knows, I...
Community Story: Labiaplasty

Community Story: Labiaplasty

In this blog, a Comfortable In My Skin friend shares her anonymous story about her labiaplasty surgery. “I was 13 when I started to worry about the appearance of my vagina. After hearing guys at...
Why Vulva Diversity Awareness Is Crucial For School Sexual Education

Why Vulva Diversity Awareness Is Crucial For School Sexual Education

We only have to look as far as the recent data from Women’s Health Victoria that found that labiaplasty is the fastest-growing surgery in Australia to see that people feel increasingly pressured to conform to a narrow...
Flip Through My Flaps Is Available NOW

Flip Through My Flaps Is Available NOW

Seven years in the making, Flip Through My Flaps is now available for preorder! Wow I can’t believe the day is here!!!! I started Comfortable In My Skin in 2018 with an idea for the Flip...