In this blog, Ellie talks all things orgasms!

I had a beautiful person write in asking about orgasms, which led to an epic conversation with an astounding amount of responses about orgasms!

I ran a poll to get some feedback:

Do you orgasm from penetration?

58% said no / 42% said yes

Do you orgasm from oral or fingers?

94% said yes / 6% said no

475 said oral only / 722 said fingers only / 1,957 said both

Is oral only for foreplay?

82% said no / 18% said yes

Do you fake your orgasms?

72% said yes / 28% said no

Is foreplay an outdated idea?

YES!

In regards to faking orgasms, I can only encourage you to teach your partner the right way to pleasure you so that you can achieve orgasm. I had a lot of feedback around lesbian relationships being better compared to a straight relationship because they understand the vulva and vagina better. So please, if you’re in a relationship with someone who is a man, educate them! Show them this blog and encourage them to listen to you and others. A sexual experience is about giving pleasure, not trying to prove how good you are!

Click through these messages from the community to see what they have to say on orgasms! Drop a comment below if you want to continue the conversation.