One of the most common questions I’ve received since launching Flip Through My Flaps: An Exploration of the Vulva is whether it’s suitable for children. The short answer? Yes.
However, as a parent, you are in the best position to decide if your child is ready. Every child is unique, and every family approaches these topics differently. That said, I believe it’s never too early to start educating the next generation about their bodies in a safe, shame-free environment.
It’s essential to normalise conversations about vulva diversity, body positivity, and correct anatomical terminology from a young age. These topics aren’t covered enough in schools, where sex education is often basic at best. This gap is particularly concerning when it comes to teaching young people—especially girls—about the diversity of their anatomy and menstrual health.
Parents have a crucial role to play in bridging this gap. Flip Through My Flaps was designed to help open up these conversations. Educating children about their bodies equips them with knowledge and confidence that will serve them throughout their lives.
There’s a misconception that talking to children about their anatomy takes away their innocence. In reality, ignorance is not innocence—it’s vulnerability. Sadly, child abuse is more common than we’d like to admit. A child who understands their anatomy and their right to body autonomy is better protected. They are harder to groom and more likely to speak up if something feels wrong.
When children are informed, they’re empowered. This knowledge doesn’t just protect them physically; it also helps foster self-acceptance and reduces the shame that so many adults feel about their bodies.
Flip Through My Flaps addresses a range of topics, including sensitive issues like sexual assault and mental health. These are handled with care, but they are still complex subjects. That’s why it’s important for parents to accompany their children as they explore the book. Together, you can tailor the conversation to your child’s age and level of understanding.
By having these open, judgment-free discussions early, you create a foundation for ongoing dialogue. Your child will know they can come to you with questions and concerns, strengthening your relationship and helping them feel supported as they grow.
Ultimately, this book is a tool to help parents and children navigate essential conversations about anatomy, diversity, and self-acceptance. It’s about breaking down taboos and building a culture of openness and respect. When we teach children about their bodies in a positive way, we set them up for a lifetime of confidence and empowerment.
So, is Flip Through My Flaps suitable for children? Yes—with your guidance. Let’s work together to raise a generation that’s informed, self-assured, and unashamed of their bodies. It starts with education, and it starts with us.
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